A Guide to Gathering Your Thoughts, Dreams, and Details

Designing a custom home is a big adventure — and it starts with a conversation. Before we draw a single line, we’ll guide you through a simple but powerful step: creating your custom home program.

A good program does more than list rooms — it captures how you want to live, what you care about, and what makes a place feel truly yours. The more open and thorough you can be, the better we can shape a design that feels like home from the very first sketch.

Here’s how to start thinking like an architect — and how we’ll help along the way.


1. Start With the Big Picture

Before we dive into square footage and ceiling heights, step back:

  • Is this your primary home or a getaway?
  • Who lives here now — and how might that change?
  • How much time will you spend here throughout the year?
  • What do you hope to change about how you live day to day?

Write a short paragraph about why you’re doing this. A sentence or two about your goals helps anchor every decision that comes next.


2. Describe Your Site

Your land is more than dirt — it’s sunlight, wind, trees, topography, views, neighbors, rules, and possibilities.

  • Do you already own a site? If so, has it been surveyed?
  • What’s beautiful or special about it? (Mature trees? Hilltop views? Creek out back?)
  • Are there things you want to screen or hide?
  • Where do you imagine the front door, the garage, the path, the garden?
  • Any neighborhood or city rules we should know now?

Bring us maps, surveys, and photos — the more we see, the better we can imagine alongside you.


3. Define Your Style & Character

Don’t worry about using the “right” words — rustic modern, Scandinavian cottage, soft contemporary — say what feels right to you:

  • What do you want your house to feel like — calm? Warm? Playful? Refined?
  • What materials do you love — wood, stone, glass, steel?
  • Do you have favorite buildings, architects, artists, or even places that inspire you?
  • Is there a message or feeling you want your house to convey when someone walks in?

Gather inspiration photos — magazines, Pinterest boards, snapshots from your travels. We speak pictures fluently.


4. Explore Lifestyle & Daily Living

A beautiful house only matters if it makes daily life better.

  • What rooms matter most for your hobbies? (Art studio? Wine room? Big pantry? Workshop?)
  • Where do you gather? How many people do you host?
  • What kinds of light do you love — sunrise in the kitchen, dappled shade on a porch?
  • Do you crave quiet corners? Loud, lively spaces? Both?
  • How do you connect with nature — gardens, patios, screened porches, outdoor kitchens?

Tell us about your days, your nights, your rituals, your pets — it all helps shape the plan.


5. List Spaces & Priorities

Next, get specific — room by room, level by level. For each space, note:

  • Must-haves vs. nice-to-haves
  • Size ideas (generous? cozy?)
  • Special features (vaulted ceiling, fireplace, built-ins)
  • Connections — should the kitchen open to the family room? Do kids’ rooms need to be near the main suite? Should the guest suite feel private?
  • Existing furniture or art that needs a special home (that piano or antique hutch!)

6. Plan for Today and Tomorrow

A good program makes room for the future:

  • Are you planning for aging in place?
  • Any accessibility needs?
  • Flex spaces that can evolve as kids grow or guests visit?
  • Rooms you may want to finish later, like a walkout lower level?

7. Think Sustainability & Technology

Do you want your house to sip energy or generate its own?

  • Interest in solar, geothermal, or passive design?
  • Healthy air, non-toxic materials, daylighting?
  • Home automation for lighting, security, shades, or audio?
  • Charging stations for electric cars? Smart systems you can control from anywhere?

8. Talk Budget & Schedule

An inspiring vision is only real when it fits your resources.

  • What’s your expected total construction budget — realistic, with a cushion for surprises?
  • Do you have a preferred contractor or builder?
  • Are there consultants you’d like us to coordinate with — interior designer, landscape architect?
  • What’s your hoped-for move-in date?

9. Gather the Details

Here’s what really helps us get moving fast:

Completed Questionnaire (we’ll share our full version with you)
Site survey and contour map, if you have one
Photos of your site, views, or existing home if remodeling
Inspiration images even a handful is better than none
Notes about special equipment, collections, or hobbies that affect the design


10. Relax — We’re Here for You

Your custom home program is a living document — not a test you need to pass. We’ll talk it through together, ask questions you haven’t thought of yet, and guide you through what really matters.

The goal is a clear, inspiring brief that saves you time, money, and stress — and helps us craft a home that lives beautifully for you.

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